Love

In this post, i had never really write about the love stories that happen on me. But today i would like to share it with my Human Communications friends.

It was a wonderful Sunday morning, I was covering myself up with a thick blanket because of the cold air conditioner. I can't remember what time it was, the house phone kept ringing and I did not bother to answer it. This is because I expect the person who called will call to my mobile phone if he or she really knows me or my family, so i kept sleeping on my warm bed.

Out of a sudden I heard the doorbell rang, I thought that it was just those people who wants to do surveys for their companies. Of course once again I don't feel like bothering them. But the one who kept ringing the doorbell wouldn't stop, so i grabbed my specs and I walked downstairs to take a look. I saw my uncle standing in front of my house gate with his little old motorcycle. I stared at him with a pair of half open eyes. I quickly open the door to let him in, the weather outside is like burning, then only i realize it was my uncle who kept calling since morning till don't know what time i get up from my bed.

He told me he brought my brother and me some food which cook by my grandmother. He handed the food to me and left. Before he left he still asked me to take care of myself.( My parents had went to China for almost a week). After my uncle left, I felt so bad and guilty. He came all the way from Selayang to Damansara just to hand me the food and I made him wait quite a long time outside calling me to wake me up. Other than that, my grandma, a very very old lady. She woke up so early to prepare food for us just for the sake of worry my brother and me have nothing to eat.

They really do love us, but they did not tell us. They show it to us in another way that we hardly feel it. They showed it to us by giving their love to us without we realize it. Since i was a small child until now, they did not, they never said that they actually care us or they love us. But after the incident of this morning, I am very sure that they do love us, they do care us. This is the love that bond a family together. From now on I will appreciate the love that given by them.

By Leong Shong Hon

Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

Well...there are seven main principles for making marriage work....
The principles are as stated below....

Principle 1: Enchance your love maps

Principle 2: Nurture your fondness and admiration

Principle 3:Turn toward each other than instead of going away

Principle 4:Let your partner influence you

Principle 5:Solve your solvable problems

Principle 6:Overcome gridlock

Principle 7:Create shared meaning

Composed by:Sathia Preeya Murugaiyan

Name of the Countries

I was reading my friend's blog and I saw this

c.h.i.n.a.
come here, i need affection.

k.o.r.e.a.
keep optimistic regardless of every adversity.

h.o.l.l.a.n.d
hope our love lasts and never dies.

i.t.a.l.y.
I trust and love you.

l.i.b.y.a.
love is beautiful; you also.

f.r.a.n.c.e.
friendships remain and never can end.

b.u.r.m.a.
between us, remember me always.

n.e.p.a.l.
never ever part as lovers.

i.n.d.i.a.
I nearly died in adoration.

k.e.n.y.a
keep everything nice, yet arousing.

C，a，n，a，t，d，i，a
cute and naughty action that developed into attraction

e.g.y.p.t.
everything’s great, you pretty thing!!

m.a.n.i.l.a.
may all nights inspire love always.

p.e.r.u.
phorget (forget) everyone...remember us.

t.h.a.i.l.a.n.d.
totally happy. always in love and never dull.

j.a.p.a.n.
just a pig and nothing.

M.A.L.A.Y.S.I.A
Memories Are Lovable As Yielding Sweet Infinite Anniversary.

I found out it is quite an interesting article, so I would like to share it here.I will never ever think of countries names actually can be read in this way. After the words are separated, most of the meaning are talking about love. This proves that the feeling of love had already become one of the important element in many's heart. Love can change a person, love can change the world. In our human communication subject, love can be divided into a few types,which are the Eros love which seek for beauty and sensuality and focuses on physical attractiveness, ludic love chich seeks entertainment and excitement and sees love as fun, storge love which is a peaceful and tranquil love, pragma love which is practical and traditional, manic love which is an obsessive love that needs to give and receive constant attention and affection and agapic love which is compassiobate and selfless.

Between all the types of love, i think that the eros love is mostly seen around me. This is because friends around me are mostly this kind of person. They like to tell me in this way when they have a new target to get as their girlfriend, they will say "hey, I tell you huh, I have met a girl, very pretty, very sweet and the body shape look so nice." Mostly guys around me are attracted by girls when they just look at the physical of the girl. After they successfully get the girl as their girlfriend, they started to critic about their girlfriend not as good as the other girl they met. This is not a good act. So guys, try to be satisfied and grateful with the girlfriend you are having now.Peace.^^

by Leong Shong Hon

I like lollipop

When people first heard this, they might think i am kind of childish or what. But actually the word lollipop does have another meaning for me.

For the 16 years of my life before i was form 4, I was quite introvert. I don't really talk to people, i don't really attend to the co-curriculum, i mean i went but just for the sack of attendance.

Then in the year of form 4, i started to changed (quite a bit). I will talk to the others, but not often, or not a long talk, at least i did not close myself up again. This is because of Lollipop. Lollipop which i am referring to is not the sweets which can be seen at the market. The lollipop which i mean is actually a Taiwanese boy band. They don't sing well, but what they do is they dance well and they always create a happy scene for those people who like them. I started to watch their show, started to influenced by their way of talking, started to think of their dance unconsciously. Whether you believe it or not, in a way they are like communicating with me, giving me some power to change myself. Soon, I started to dance with my really close friends, and my senior saw us, asking us to do performance, and my because of performing my friend's amount increased.

So after the two years of dancing with my friends, i realize that dancing is actually one of my way to communicate with my close friends. From the way i dance, it actually showed them how i feel at that moment, whether happy, sad, angry or other feelings. Honestly, my mind was blank whenever i dance, but they say they can interpret my feelings through my dancing. This most probably because of my non verbal language i think. Right??:)

By Leong Shong Hon

Working As A Team

Today a few friends of mine and me was busying about the marketing project, which was to set up a stall to sell something in order to write out our proposal for our presentations. Its actually quite hard to run on a business, one of my friend Chun Haw and me sat at the stall for several hours. but luckily we able to manage our stall properly, in the way of selling, providing good service, i think we actually did provide good services.

Actually what I want to say in this blog is the team working. Today we worked as a team, and its is actually related to the chapter we learned today, the chapter of members and leaders in small group communication. With an unconscious heart, i realize that actually the group members of mine do have the characteristics of encourager, harmonizer, compromiser and also follower. actually our team has two people who acts as an leader, at least i think they are although they did not admit. This is because they acts as an encourager and also harmonizer. The day before the selling our products, i kept asking do we able to finish selling our products, they put a smile on their face and said, it is possible, and asked me not to worry. Today while selling our products, two of them tried to increase the percentage of our sales by using different strategies. How bout me? Actually I am a typical follower, maybe I am already used to it, since I was a kid until now, I keep on doing things that people ask me to do and sometimes i might do it well, sometimes i might just simply do it. But I am quite proud of myself today, because i think i really did a great job. At least I did not make the situation worst. Please allow me to give a little applause to myself..^^

By Leong Shong Hon

Black and White

Recently I had been watching a Chinese TV series call Black and White. It is a story about a guy who born with a very ugly face, hunch back, parents died since he was ten and always get bully by people. One day he get caught by some mysterious people and the moment he woke up, he was given a very nice face, a whole new sports car, a bungalow, every month 30 thousand cash given to him and he has given a job as a police. However soon he find out that all this was given by a head of gangster who is probably his father. Since the moment he was given a new face, he tried to become a good police but after he find out his true identity, he realize that his life has totally change, he is confused whether to help the gangster side or to arrest his father.

For me, this drama contains a lot of hardship for the main character. Such as, when he find out that he is the son of the gangster, he screwed up his friendship with his best friend who is also a cop, he find out it is hard to make decision whether to be good or be bad, he find out the girl he likes might turn to become his sister.

In our daily life, of course we won’t be able to get into this type of situation. But what I want to say is, our decisions might turn our life into disaster. Such as the main character, he choose to accept the life people gave him although he don’t know who is the one who gave him all the properties and in the end he turn up to choose whether to be good or to be bad. We don’t want to lost our friend which we very care about, we don’t want to turn people down who expect us to do good. So, we must always do the right choice, do the right thing.

By Leong Shong Hon

Culture pollution

Recently there is an advertisement going popular and popular, which is the P1wimax advertisement. Even kids around the streets are talking using the slogan "cut already or not". For the Marketers of the P1wimax, it is definitely a good things because the advertisement is so popular until kids also know about it. But for me, the way they are selling the advertisement is like kind of not suitable for kids, such as, one of the lady in the advertisement said after you cut it it will be more faster and more comfortable with a very seductive voice. For teenagers and adults, they might be interpret the message in another way when they first listened to the advertisement and find out it is awful if they do not finish the advertisement.

In an objective view, it is absolutely a wrong thing to do. But when we look it in a subjective view, it might be correct. This is because the way wimax do promotion might be slightly wrong because of what they say, but in the end of the day, they get their sales, they success in selling their products.So, for them, it is not a wrong thing to go. It is a good culture pollution for them.

Nowadays, many friends of mine, including some of my relatives 'had already cut', based on their comment,the wimax is better than their old one. But of course, for me, I won't simply listening to their comment, I think I will go and try the speed of wimax first, only decide whether I want to change my network or not.

By Leong Shong Hon